Last night I couldn't sleep, I had one question in my mind " What would make you really happy?"
And then, I looked at my son sleeping and I realized I was already more than happy. Well I am very tired happy mum but still happy.
Is this kind of "happy" enough? Sometimes yes and other times we need more, we want more.
They say sharing is caring and it's so true, no words can describe the share feeling. When I see my son sharing his biscuit with me, it make me happy because I know I've done a great thing teaching him love.
When you share or give something that matters to you, not only you leave something behind ( a feeling, a smile, a positive outcome of the day) but you also leave place for something new.
Einstein had a say "You can expect to solve problems by the same way you created them".
It's available for every other part of our lives.
Let's look at the teacher, who is used to work with children between 12-18 years old.
When he starts working with adults he must adapt and change his vision and his way of thinking. The difference between these types of behaviors are so different, so the first person to change is you in order to help others.
I've also seen lately, people who think they have changed, but when you show the same attitude even though inside of you, the doubt and the "self center" is still there, then is difficult even for them to believe they've changed.
Let see the teacher or the doctor, at their 60's they retire. But they still go back there, volunteer and keep doing what they love. That's not a change, that's love, that is passion and this is what keeps us Alive! Sometimes you just don't need to change.
OK, so to conclude: What you love about others is definitely part of you and what you dislike in others reflects the same thing you don't like about yourself.
So why not giving? Giving up that behavior that stops you from evolving, giving up that fear that others are better?
Just give up to all this and you should truly find Yourself.
Instead start giving what you know, start helping, start showing what works for you, start loving and start with yourself, then you'll see how the rest would fall into.
Challenge yourself, reinvent yourself, this is continuous and eternal learning
So how about you? Do you struggle with change? Do you feel alone and understood? Tell us your story 'cause sharing is caring. :)